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how to friendship 101

ASK A GIRL: “Everyone has their own best friend, their own boyfriend. Meanwhile, I only have my dad and my brother pinned in my contacts.”

May 2

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April 2026

man hater gets a boyfriend.

ASK A GIRL: “I’ve got a boyfriend, and I can hardly go a conversation without bringing him up. I am seriously in love. It’s embarrassing.”

Apr 25

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i’m getting married & i’m scared he isn’t the one.

ASK A GIRL: “I can’t imagine marrying anyone else. Yet I find myself thinking ‘am I wasting my 20’s and my chance for love just because I am comfortable…

Apr 18

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my friend is starving herself thin.

ASK A GIRL: “She’s been on her ‘fitness journey’ and lost 20 kg in the past 1.5 years. She wasn’t overweight before.”

Apr 11

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i just turned 17 & i’ve been so depressed.

ADVICE FROM A GIRL: “So many girls are too scared to share their problems because they’ve been told it’s just not that deep.”

Apr 4

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March 2026

friends ditch friends for boyfriends.

ASK A GIRL: “All my friends are prioritizing their romantic partners, and things I do come off as overstepping, when to me they just feel like regular…

Mar 28

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women hate women who go for what they want.

ADVICE FROM A GIRL: “Do the thing you’d be jealous if someone else did it first.”

Mar 21

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am i a pick me girl?

ASK A GIRL: “Many of these men have girlfriends! I don’t ever want to look like I’m more than just a friend!”

Mar 9

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February 2026

you’re not stupid. you’re just lazy.

ASK A GIRL: “I’m 18, and I didn’t go to college last year. Maybe because I’m scared. Maybe because deep down, I still feel 14 years old: not old enough…

Feb 23

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when is it my turn to fall in love?

ASK A GIRL: “I want, badly, to be wanted. To have someone to prove that, above all else, I am loved, I am loved, I am loved.”

Feb 16

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January 2026

i hate ugly girls!

ADVICE FROM A GIRL: “No one will remember you as the girl with the perfect thigh gap. They won’t say, 'I can’t wait for you to meet her. She has the…

Jan 26

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lord what will become of me once i've lost my novelty?

ASK A GIRL: “I’m 18, and I’m scared that, someday, I won’t be 18 anymore.”

Jan 19

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